Waiting

The days are coming when I will fulfill the promise…  Jer. 33:14

By now the turkey is long gone.  The exhaustion and excitement of hitting the big sales has dissipated.  Many of us don’t remember the score of the big game even though we watched avidly.  The infusion of joy that comes with Thanksgiving has gone and left us flat.

Now what?

One holiday is done, Christmas is coming, but now, today, we are waiting.  For what do we wait?

The days are coming when I will fulfill the promise…

Now is the perfect time to reflect on what we are waiting for.  Are we waiting for more shopping?  Are we waiting for the round of must-do holiday parties that leave us so exhausted we take no time for ourselves? Are we looking forward with something akin to dread because of the stress placed on us by difficult relatives, financial pressure, and the tribulation of serious illness?

The days are coming when I will fulfill the promise…

What has God promised us?  As we finish the first reading for tomorrow, the first Sunday of Advent, we hear the prophet Jeremiah relate God’s promise of the coming Messiah.

In Jeremiah’s time, the promise was still far off.  We are much luckier.  For though we are waiting for the Messiah to come again in His glory, He is already here with us now.

He waits with us, and if we take His hand in prayer, all things become possible.  The illness may not disappear; the trying relative may not change.  But we will change and what was unbearable a moment ago will be far less daunting.

Jesus is coming, and yet He is here already. What are you waiting for?  What burden is too great?  Ask the Lord to bear it with you.

Remember that hope, patience, fortitude are gifts from Him and free for the asking.  They are gifts that will remain long after the fleeting happiness of the holiday celebrations are gone.

Better still, these gifts can be shared unreservedly, without being diminished.  In fact, they actually grow larger.

Who do you know who is waiting too?  Is it an elderly neighbor, living alone, who waits for someone with whom to share a lifetime of experience?

Is there a young family who is waiting for someone to guide them through the labyrinth of parenthood?  An ailing relative who needs comfort while waiting for the results of that scary test?

Wait with them in their trials, and share with them your own struggles with them too.  Where two or three are gathered in the Lord’s name, He is surely with them, and we can have no friend better to wait with us.

Copyright © 2012, Carol Ann Chybowski

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Carol Ann Chybowski

Carol Ann Chybowski

Carol Ann Chybowski is a long time member of the Catholic Writers Guild. She has published book reviews at various websites and appears in two volumes of A Community of Voices: An Anthology of Santa Barbara. When not busy about her parish, Carol Ann can be found knitting, gardening, or on horseback.

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